This, for example, the cult of the naked body, worship of sensual pleasure. Everyone knows that in countries such as Japan, China, India, Nepal, sexuality is seen not so much as art but as science. Sex in these countries is not so much a goal as the path, the movement and even the development of the soul.Sexuality is considered as something natural, not forbidden, but at the same time it does not “animal” as an act committed only for my own satisfaction, and the way to become closer spiritually.
On attitudes to sex in China had a huge impact ancient philosophy, which considered women as being “second class”. Views and now the Chinese are clearly antifeminists nature: women are seen as inferior being compared to men. In China since ancient times valued female purity, devotion to her husband is a major in family life and the upbringing of children. Chinese family is different in that it prevails mutual respect and care, children require behavior that does not harm the family. This atmosphere creates a special affection for each other, and the marriage is primarily to have a family. In modern China, as in ancient times, negatively assessed the naked body. Anal and oral Continue reading
180 days before the celebration comes the engagement. Groom with a bouquet of flowers came to the house to beloved and formally asks her parents for her hand. The conversation happens in which parents try to know about young about his status, education, family and property. If given a blessing – a girl visits the house of the beloved and there’s her bride. It also passes the so called test, answers questions and trying to enjoy it to the parents of her future husband. If both parties approved – the official announcement of the upcoming wedding.
Begin a long preparation. For 70 days before the celebration the bride must give the groom’s parents the best and most beautiful silk. It is a sign of deep respect and reverence his parents. Of course, you can send to the house of handpicked every gift, but it is a silk garment or roll of material is more valuable and expensive gift.
10 days before the celebration the groom must present a gift to the groom. In Korea it is called yedan. This can be a beautiful silk shirt or all sorts of items from this fabric. In response, young Continue reading
1. Dreams come true
In high school I was reading books about Japan. Dream to visit this amazing country seemed sky-high, on a par with flying to the moon.
But years passed and now, I live in Japan!
I set a goal to marry and move to another country. Unfortunately, in my beloved Ukraine, I have lost hope to change things for the better in my life.
Sacking future husband was long and difficult. The truth was I didn’t want to leave for Japan. I was looking for someone who will be a father to my daughter, and I was a good husband.
There was a large correspondence with men from different countries. Hopes, disappointments, new hopes.
Letters from Japan, from my future husband, were special. It is always interesting to tell about yourself, about your family, send lots of photos. He often called us and cared for us with my daughter. I realized that this man really wants to marry me! But the final decision could be taken only after a personal meeting. And my daughter, at the invitation of the groom, flew to Japan.
Fuji welcomed us very well. Every day he showed us the sights of the Japanese. My daughter noticed that the first time, with delight and flood of impressions we exchanged with her one sentence. “look, Look! Wow. ”
A month later we got married and now I have a new family, new home and new life.
Dreams come true!
2. Myths Continue reading